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Thursday, 05 April 2007 |
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Avoid dress stress with our easy how-tos for choosing the perfect bridesmaid attire. The date is set, the reception hall is booked, and now you’re starting to focus on the details that will really make your wedding day unique. Standing next to you (in your beautiful gown and perfect updo, of course) will be the best support group you can have -- your bridal party. Don’t torture them with ugly dresses. We’ve devised a step-by-step guide to help you keep your girls happy and glowing all day.
Although it may seem like a no-brainer, decide on the formality of your wedding -- day (casual) vs. evening (formal) -- before you start choosing any important details. The time of day and season of your wedding play huge roles in the bridesmaid dress selection. You’ve probably heard short dresses are ideal for casual, outdoor affairs and long dresses are appropriate for formal, evening events. These days it’s really the fabric, not the length, that dictates the formality of the dress. Tea-length (just above the ankle) dresses are everywhere and become quite versatile with the right choice of fabric. Pick a dark color in a rich satin for a formal wedding, and opt for pastel chiffon or printed organza for a daytime ceremony.
Knot Note: Start thinking about bridesmaid dresses about six months before your wedding to allow enough time to decide on, order, and fit the dresses.
First, select a dress or dresses that you like. Start by choosing a style or a color, whichever is more important to you. Be sure to pick your own wedding gown before beginning the search for bridesmaid attire. Your gown and their dresses should coordinate but don’t have to be an exact match. If yours is strapless, don’t put the bridesmaids in long sleeves -- try a halter neckline for your girls. If your dress is ultra romantic, you might not want thoroughly modern maids.
If you begin the search with a specific silhouette in mind, think about the body types and individual styles of your bridesmaids. If you’d like them all to don the same dress, choose one that will look great on the most hard-to-fit girl. The others can always get the dress altered to fit their shapes. Or allow each maid to choose a different dress style in the same color scheme or fabric to tie the look together. Varied silhouettes don’t have to mean lack of continuity. Mixing and matching separates, or playing with details and colors, allows your attendants to add a personal touch.
Knot Note: Remember, you can't please everyone, so don't stress yourself out. And be confident in your choices.
If color is key, there are a few ways to approach choosing the right one. First, keep in mind the color schemes at your ceremony and reception sites, as well as your palette. If your wedding will be at a rustic inn that has burgundy and dark green decor, rule out fuchsia bridesmaid dresses. Second, decide if you’d like everyone in your bridal party to wear the same color, or if you’d rather choose a color scheme. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different shades of the same hue to add some variety -- for pinks, try rose petal, fuchsia, and raspberry; for purples, you could pick lavender, amethyst, and plum.
Finally, let the season be your guide. Rich, saturated colors -- such as deep plum and chocolate -- work well in the fall and winter months, while lighter shades such as celadon and iris are perfect for spring and summer. If you’re still at a loss for which color to choose, go with one you love -- pick a shade that you used when decorating your apartment, for example, or one that shows up frequently in your wardrobe.
Knot Note: If opting for prints instead of solids, keep the rest of the look simple -- think monochromatic bouquets paired with sweet and simple hairstyles and jewelry.Once you've found your favorites, finalize the dress with your bridal party. Email photos to the group for their opinions. Don't feel you have to bring everyone to the store with you -- your maid of honor and one other attendant are fine, especially if some are from out of town. Your girls will appreciate that you want their input, but they might be happy to skip the chaos of cramming into a small shop.
Knot Note: You don't want your maids to feel bullied. Once you’ve narrowed down the search, email them to let them know you found a dress you love and ask them to check it out.
If possible, ask everyone in your bridal party to get measured by a professional seamstress or tailor at a department store if they can't make it to the store where you're ordering the dresses. Warn them that bridesmaid dresses tend to run on the small side, so each girl's usual dress size might not apply.
Timeline: Allow two to three months for the dresses to arrive, and four to six weeks for alterations.
Looking for the seemingly effortless way to find and finalize your bridesmaid dresses? Here’s a simple checklist to make sure you don’t miss any of the important details:
Order all the dresses at the same time so they are from the same dye lot.
If many maids live out of town, collect all the measurements and money and coordinate with the dress shop yourself, or enlist your maid of honor's help.
Allow about two to three months for the dresses to come in, and add four to six weeks for alterations. Alterations typically take only two weeks, but a second fitting (if necessary) will add a few weeks. Also, don't assume that every girl will be able to get to the tailor the day the dress arrives -- be considerate of your maids' busy schedules.
After the dresses are ordered, send a quick email or letter to everyone in your bridal party with info about the timeline and their responsibilities with regards to the dresses. Be sure to follow up with them about a week before the dresses are due to arrive so they can plan their arrangements accordingly.
Knot Note: Don't get frustrated if your maids don't deal with the dresses right away. They know how important your wedding is. It's probably just going to be on their schedule.
Even if you fall in love with the perfect pair of fuchsia four-inch stilettos to match the ribbon trim on the dress, don’t subject your girls to the torture. If you’re choosing the shoes for them, comfort should be the top priority. Then find a color that will complement the dress -- metallic hues are a great option if classic black won’t work.
As much as possible, stay away from exact matches to avoid a seriously ’80s look. Another option is to tell your bridesmaids the specifics (color, open- or close-toe, for instance) and let them find the perfect pair -- some might already have it in their closets. Bottom line: They’ll be on their feet helping you all day, so don’t make them pay for it with sore toes and blistered ankles at the end of the night.
Knot Note: If all maids are wearing the same dress, why not customize their bouquets to make them feel like individuals? Try varying the shapes of the arrangements or selecting different flowers for each girl but in the same color scheme.
A few little extras can go a long way. Use pins, scarves, belts, and jewelry to dress up simple ensembles, or to give each dress an individual flair. Accessories can also be practical—fur stoles provide style and warmth for a chilly winter wedding. But all the details tend to add up, so if it’s not in your budget to spring for them yourself, don’t ask your girls to. Just think: A beautiful brooch for the dress would make a perfect bridesmaid gift -- and one less thing you would have to worry about right before the wedding! |
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Wednesday, 04 April 2007 |
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From flashes of colorto embellished necklines, the bridal runway exploded with gorgeous, innovative gowns. Here's a closer look at 2007's must-have styles. Dramatic hemlinesSay bye-bye to the straight and narrow, the latest looks have hems that really move: think tiers, scallops, and slits. New NecklinesWhether you're sporting a Grecian-inspired one-shoulder gown or a halter with plenty of bling, it's all about showing off your shoulders in a stylish way.  Tips: Consider your undergarments. A low-cut bra with removable straps works for halter, crisscross, and off-the-shoulder styles. Pleats pleaseThere's no question about it, which fabric detail ruled the runways---with accordion style skirts and tiers of petite pleats designers added the perfect touch of texture. Gowns go short
From tea-lengths to above-the-knee numbers, hemlines are on the up and up, showing off brides and prom goers' flirty side. Fun fabricsWhile beading gave lace a cutting edge, designers continued to experiment with new materials like raffia and pleated taffeta. Tips: Bold embellishments give way to simple, delicate jewelry. 
Head-to-toe huesWill it be a white wedding, or an black evening? Or a golden celebration? From ice blue to blush, we love the look of allover color. 
Sheer sleevesCovering up has never been sexier. Whether skinny or bell-shaped, sleeves add an alluring touch of sophistication. 
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Saturday, 31 March 2007 |
Ball gown From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia A Ball gown is the most formal female attire for social occasions. According to rules of etiquette, a ball gown must be worn where "white tie" or "evening dress" is specified on the invitation. It is traditionally a full-skirted gown reaching at least to the ankles, made of luxurious fabric, delicately and exotically trimmed. Most versions are cut off the shoulder with decollete necklines. Such gowns are typically worn with a stole (a formal shawl in expensive fabric), cape or cloak in lieu of a coat, "good" (couture or vintage) jewellery and opera-length gloves. Standard accessories are dancing shoes and a clutch style evening bag. Where "state decorations" are to be worn, they are on a bow pinned to the chest, and married women wear a tiara if they have one. The ball-gown shape has changed little since the mid-19th century. Although man-made fabrics are now sometimes used, the most common fabrics are satin, silk, taffeta and velvet with trimmings of lace, pearls, sequins, embroidery, ruffles and ruching.
The elements of ladies' white tie attire Optional: - state decorations - if specified on invitation; worn on a bow pinned to the chest
- tiara - if "state decoration" is specified; worn by married women only
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Saturday, 31 March 2007 |
Evening gown From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia An evening gown or gown is the general name given to a lady's dress worn to a formal affair. It corresponds to men's formal wear for white tie and black tie events. Gowns are worn by members of a wedding party, by guests at formal evening weddings, for diplomatic events such as state dinners, and other formal events including debutante cotillions, proms, charity balls, art premiers, the opening of opera and ballet seasons, and many award ceremonies. - For a brief history of the gown, see Clothing terminology.
// Definition of "gown" A gown is a long, often loose, flowing garment. It is a type of dress, ranging in length from tea and ballerina to full-length. Gowns are often made of a luxury fabric such as chiffon, velvet, satin, or silk.
Types of Occasions and Dress
Debutantes For their debuts, debutantes wear long white ball gowns. They also wear long white leather gloves that go well above the elbow and that close with small pearl buttons at the wrist. Their jewelry is understated and suitable for a young lady about to be formally presented to society for the first time.
White Tie Occasions According to rules of etiquette and attire, ladies must wear a ball gown to events where men are required to wear white tie attire. The elements of ladies' white tie attire could include: - ball gown - always full-length for any white tie occasion
- dancing shoes - formal pumps, evening sandals or ballet slippers
- jewelry - earrings and necklace; rings and bracelets are optional. A watch is not considered appropriate except for jewelled versions whose faces are covered so that they resemble bracelets.
- gloves - if worn, should be opera length
- stole, cape or cloak, or an opera coat
- handbag - clutch style or small evening bag
Optional: - state decorations - if specified on invitation; worn on a bow pinned to the chest
- tiara - if "state decoration" is specified; worn by married women only
Black Tie Occasions A gown for a black tie event may be full length, ballet, or tea (mid-calf to ankle) length. In general, the same rules as a white-tie event apply to a black-tie event, though in some cases a cocktail gown may be acceptable. To accompany a gentleman wearing a formal kilt, a lady wears a white gown with a tartan sash. A less formal variant is a longer kilted skirt with jacket. The sash or kilted skirt may be the tartan of the woman's own clan (if she is entitled to wear one), of her husband's clan, or any of the "district tartans" approved for general wear.
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